James 5: 9. "Brethren, complain not against one another, lest ye be judged: behold, the judge standeth at the door."
The scriptures tell us that if your brother trespasses against you, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him.
Scolding is one thing, ostracism is another, complaining against someone is another. Jesus Christ did not blame anyone but rebuked. There is a big difference between the two.
As long as we are not judged, when our brother commits a crime against us, we should not judge them as a fault to everyone, without looking at them as an enemy, without any intention of revenge, without solving all his actions as a crime, thinking that they should be ruined.
When we are patient, the Lord, the judge, will do justice for us from our side. Amen.